If you’ve ever played padel, you know it’s more than just a sport, it’s a dance of coordination, trust, and instinct between partners. But what really makes the magic happen? One word: communication.
For me, communication on the padel court can make or break a team. But it’s not just about tactics. How we share advice, support our partners, and give feedback during a game often mirrors how we interact in life and in business. That’s why this topic lights me up. I believe the way we talk to each other on court reveals something deeper about how we connect and grow together.
So, I posed a simple question to our community:
What’s the best way to help a partner improve while keeping the energy positive?
And wow, the insights that came in were not only practical, but deeply human. Let’s explore them.
“It really helps to explain why something is wrong instead of just telling your partner not to do something.” – Abdelrahman
When we understand the reason behind a suggestion, we’re more likely to absorb and apply it. It also makes advice feel less like criticism and more like collaboration.
“Don’t overwhelm them with tips and corrections.”
“One or two things at the most helps with the focus.” – Abdelrahman, Mark
During a match, cognitive overload is real. Keep feedback simple and focused. Save deeper analysis for after the game.
“Stay positive and encouraging even if the game isn’t going well.” – Abdelrahman
“Critics and demanding voice usually make game worse.” – Zarina
“Team energy is important. If partners support each other, that helps.” – Marc
Confidence is contagious, and so is frustration. Even when you’re down, positive language and tone can uplift your partner and shift the momentum.
“When a new partner rolls his eyes in disbelief of a missed shot, it’s demotivating.” – Marc
Non-verbal communication matters. Eye rolls, sighs, or turning your back can be just as harmful as words. Stay encouraging with your expressions and gestures.
“Any advice needs to be required or asked for, even though it’s valid. Or at least start with: ‘May I advise you something?’” – Ekaterina
Unsolicited advice, even if well-meaning, can feel intrusive. Asking first shows respect and creates space for growth.
“The sender and receiver both matter. Feedback should come from a positive place, and the receiver should be open and ego-free.” – Mark
Constructive feedback is a gift, but it works best when rooted in care and received with openness.
“Real coaching during a game is near impossible other than discussing strategy. Anything else should be done after the match.” – Marc
Stick to simple, in-the-moment strategies during play. Leave technique critiques for downtime.
“If partners agree to communicate vocally about who should hit the ball, that can be very helpful.” – Marc
Discuss call-outs before the match, don’t assume your partner knows. Clear roles build trust.
“When you are in contact with anyone, you always create a system, and it’s important to be responsible for the system environment.” – Zarina
Whether on court, in the workplace, or in a relationship, we are always co-creating emotional environments. Communication is the glue that holds that system together.
“Compatibility and open dissent communication is the key.” – Anna
That includes honest, respectful disagreement. Growth comes from open dialogue, not silence.
Padel is a game of reflexes, tactics, and skill. But above all, it’s a game of connection. The way we communicate with our partners can shape the entire experience, whether we’re playing for fun or pushing ourselves to compete.
A well-timed word of encouragement, a shared laugh after a mistake, or a respectful suggestion between points, these moments build trust, resilience, and joy. And when communication is handled with empathy and clarity, the benefits stretch far beyond the court.
Because in the end, how we speak to each other during a match is just a reflection of how we choose to show up in our relationships. With presence, respect, and a willingness to grow together.
So next time you step onto the court, bring your voice, your awareness, and your positive energy. It might just be your most powerful shot.
